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| Skrivet den 2006-07-25 16:51:03 |
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i told my ex david...that i am a cutter and when we dated i cut because of him and he says im crazii and that if i cut in the wrong place i could die in like 3o seconds and that the shit he does he could die in like 30 yrs..*he constantly has sex with girls.he does drugs.he smokes.and he drinks* he says he cant talk to me because im going out with joe and because he "Loves me so much" that its wierd for him to talk to me when he just found out im a cutter...and im worried he will tell someone and they will tell my parents and ill be put in a mental hospitsl...  |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-25 19:20:03 |
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If your parents do find out you wont be put in a mental hospital. The worst that can happen is you'll go to therapy. That's what happened to me but it never helped much. Talk to your ex and tell him not to say anything. He probably just started talking to you when he found out because he might care about you and doesnt want you to cut because of him anymore. |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-25 23:52:58 |
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| If your parents do find out you wont be put in a mental hospital. The worst that can happen is you'll go to therapy. That's what happened to me but it never helped much. Talk to your ex and tell him not to say anything. He probably just started talking to you when he found out because he might care about you and doesnt want you to cut because of him anymore. |
no i told him...because i was tryin to prove a point to him but no my ma would seriously put me in a mental hospital... |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 00:01:16 |
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You cant be put in a mental hospital unless there's seriously something wrong with you. Trust me, I know. I've been put in one. Cutting is major but it's not major enough to be thrown into a mental hospital. |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 00:22:00 |
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| You cant be put in a mental hospital unless there's seriously something wrong with you. Trust me, I know. I've been put in one. Cutting is major but it's not major enough to be thrown into a mental hospital. |
He has a point. You'll probably just get some therapy or something. I was freaked out when I told one of my ex-best friends that I was a cutter and I almost started cutting again when his twin was being harsh to me. But all I did was remember that I was getting out of this hellhole I call home when I turn 18. (I'm moving to LA, to go to UCLA.)
PS: I sent you a msg, Ash. |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 01:11:07 |
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I was thrown in a mental hospital for 1)family issues for 2 weeks...
2) the second time was for cutting:) so yes you can be thrown into a mental hospital.. .although they didn't work....
for me I got over my problem after 2 years..... I guess that since I was finally content and happy (my ex did this) i finally just stopped.... there is help |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 01:25:03 |
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it's true that you can kill yourself if you puncture like a vein and if you cut in the wrong place.
I think some one said it was deadly if you did it vertical, and it hurts more if it was horizontal.
And as for him, all that stuff is whats going to get him an STD. So his statement comparing that and cutting doesn't make sense at all.
I don't think your parent will ship you off because of this, and if they did, it's because they care for you. But I think parents, regardless of their aggrevating tempers, will probably work these things out with you and all because when you are in pain, they are too, even if they don't say it or express it.
right. We all have tough times, sometimes cutting isn't the way to go. Or I don't think so, that's just physical pain, that doesn't solve any problems, it just ameliorates pain.
but what do I know I'm just one person, and I'm glad you guys stopped. |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 01:36:29 |
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wow, life really is a tough ride, i dont want to be all preachy here but, ash i really think you should take your anger or pain out in drawings or poems not on yourself. thats what i do and soemtimes i come out with such a good poem i could use it as a song or such a good drawing that i keep it to look at when i am angry and it reminds myself how mad i was and than i got over it, but i dont think thats what your asking for i think your asking for a little love and understanding, things are going to be okay if your parents do find out tell them that you need some support from them not from a doctor that doesn't give a damn. and if they put you with a therapist just remember it is for your good because they love you, i dont think you should keep it a secret from them.....in a few years everything will straighten out you'll forget about david and maybe even joe you'll be happy with some other guy or maybe you'll be hapy with only friends by your side...I am Christian i dont know if you are but sometimes a little prayer can always do a lot of good, God is never mad at anyone he really does love you no matter what Love and hugss Caitlin <3 |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 01:46:12 |
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| wow, life really is a tough ride, i dont want to be all preachy here but, ash i really think you should take your anger or pain out in drawings or poems not on yourself. |
exactly. |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 03:27:51 |
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| wow, life really is a tough ride, i dont want to be all preachy here but, ash i really think you should take your anger or pain out in drawings or poems not on yourself. |
exactly. |
i do that...i write songs...use to write poems now just mostly songs...but sumtimes its soooo bad that a song doesnt help me...ill write one and then cut...cutting calms me down..it helps me relax |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 04:57:16 |
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Ashley. listen cutting urself isn't the best way to solve problems and if you keep doing it you could make it hard on you to stop until you cut off a finger or whatever. and i think you have a problem with cutting urself. The other Night i came close of Hurting myself bad cuz i was mad but instead i went outside and just stayed out there until i was better if your mad at someone go outside or something that doesn't have to do with cutting urself. So please stop the cutting |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 05:36:13 |
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yay my cousin !!! ^ ^ |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 05:58:00 |
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Ohana Stitch. when i get mad I hit things like a cinder blocks to calm my nerves down but when i told a friend about it she got mad and wouldn't speak to me for a long time and so i tried to stop and its hard but i haven't been hitting things in a while.. remember about ur Friends Don't cut urself because Its very Stupid and i know what i do is stupid too and thats why i stopped because I was thinking about my friends being upset because of something stupid I promise to stop punching things if you promise to stop cutting urself |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 13:18:19 |
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| Ohana Stitch. when i get mad I hit things like a cinder blocks to calm my nerves down but when i told a friend about it she got mad and wouldn't speak to me for a long time and so i tried to stop and its hard but i haven't been hitting things in a while.. remember about ur Friends Don't cut urself because Its very Stupid and i know what i do is stupid too and thats why i stopped because I was thinking about my friends being upset because of something stupid I promise to stop punching things if you promise to stop cutting urself |
i have many reasons to do the things i do...my parents always arguin talkin about divorce...my grandparents livingwith us and tellin me i wont get anywhere in life...my bro always callin me names like fatass and cocksucker...*sry guys*,guys i date only want me for sum ass...not being bestfriends with a gurl i was bestfriends with for 12 years...my aunt having cancer...problems with my ex boifriends...and rumors around the highschool...oh and having the cops called on me and not socializing with much of family except on my mas side because my mother doesnt like my dads side...
i dont like my life...sumtimes i actually try to take it too far...like suicide but i stop and think about a few things like...im gonna go to hell...my parentswill be disapointed and...im too scared shitless to do this...so im left with either cutting my wrists or getting rubberbands and and snapping them on my wrists as hard as i can until i get welts |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 16:07:41 |
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| wow, life really is a tough ride, i dont want to be all preachy here but, ash i really think you should take your anger or pain out in drawings or poems not on yourself. |
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i do that...i write songs...use to write poems now just mostly songs...but sumtimes its soooo bad that a song doesnt help me...ill write one and then cut...cutting calms me down..it helps me relax |
i dont get how bleeding can make you relax. I get freaked out when i get a paper cut. lol
but i still wish you can find something better than cutting to ease your pain. |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 16:53:49 |
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do you want to know something, right now it sounds like life is really hard for you right now and it's going to get better, since my ideas wont help because your way beyond that, maybe when your not mad or upset you should be out there doing something. Get involved that way you won't think about how your parents might be getting divorced or rumors or all they boyfriend crap. The only way to forget our past is to move on to the future, and live in the present. My aunt says that all the time, it's summer you told me that you've been busy but normally your not, I think that if you find a whole bunch of programs to do like a summer choir, or something fun to do with your friends, which i am not saying you dont you'll get your mind off things you know? also try karate i love it i get my anger out, i have a lot of energy after it, and its really good excersize |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 18:01:54 |
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| do you want to know something, right now it sounds like life is really hard for you right now and it's going to get better, since my ideas wont help because your way beyond that, maybe when your not mad or upset you should be out there doing something. Get involved that way you won't think about how your parents might be getting divorced or rumors or all they boyfriend crap. The only way to forget our past is to move on to the future, and live in the present. My aunt says that all the time, it's summer you told me that you've been busy but normally your not, I think that if you find a whole bunch of programs to do like a summer choir, or something fun to do with your friends, which i am not saying you dont you'll get your mind off things you know? also try karate i love it i get my anger out, i have a lot of energy after it, and its really good excersize |
when im mad my parents dont let me leave the house so its not like i could do anything...
i dont do karate i do boxing...and actually i usually am busy now that i think of it cuz i hang out alot with my friends...i play soccer in the fall...basketball in the winter...and softball in the spring...so basically im bsuy alot...but if i stay out all the time my ma grounds me and doesnt let me go anywhere because she says "ive been gone to much" so i dunno
and lucy it relaxes me because i know that im not hurting anyone else and that im just hurting myself...its getting me ready for the pain ill face when i go to hell...cuz thats where im goin |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 19:22:12 |
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life will only get better. trust me.. I did it for two years.... also be careful, you could end up becoming addicted to cutting. I ended becoming addicted in 11&12.... o wait.. i cutted for 3 years....
and it wasn't with a razor.. i used burrning as my method...
it's really not gonna make anything better. it's just one added problem on the pile. i understand that you want to get rid of yoiur emotional pain, by resorting to physical pain. but it really isn't the way to go.... find something to live for.. it'll work... after my ex, it just ended up stopping completly without me even realizing. like once in 12th (1 semester) i started crying for nothing... after my boyfriend, i just forgot about it... i had something else to occupy me...
yeah... just don't give up.. |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 21:32:02 |
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if ur still into cutting.. stop cutting and go plant some trees !! Dont you know that taking care of plants and flowers relaxes people ? It was from a recent medical or scientific studies. |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-26 21:42:02 |
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ashley PLZZZZZZZZ girl dun cut urslef
seriosly i used to cut ma self
i wanted to feel the pain for reasons i didnt knew
i still wanna cut bit i stopped and so should u
when ma mom found out she didnt do any thing well she wanted to take me to a phsyitric to find out if something is wrong with me and whats the reaosn behind ma cuttin
until i begged her not to and she said okay
and i have stoped and im feelin better
so plz dont do tat to urself and dont give a shit what ur ex is saying |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-27 21:36:01 |
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| Ohana Stitch. when i get mad I hit things like a cinder blocks to calm my nerves down but when i told a friend about it she got mad and wouldn't speak to me for a long time and so i tried to stop and its hard but i haven't been hitting things in a while.. remember about ur Friends Don't cut urself because Its very Stupid and i know what i do is stupid too and thats why i stopped because I was thinking about my friends being upset because of something stupid I promise to stop punching things if you promise to stop cutting urself |
i have many reasons to do the things i do...my parents always arguin talkin about divorce...my grandparents livingwith us and tellin me i wont get anywhere in life...my bro always callin me names like fatass and cocksucker...*sry guys*,guys i date only want me for sum ass...not being bestfriends with a gurl i was bestfriends with for 12 years...my aunt having cancer...problems with my ex boifriends...and rumors around the highschool...oh and having the cops called on me and not socializing with much of family except on my mas side because my mother doesnt like my dads side...
i dont like my life...sumtimes i actually try to take it too far...like suicide but i stop and think about a few things like...im gonna go to hell...my parentswill be disapointed and...im too scared shitless to do this...so im left with either cutting my wrists or getting rubberbands and and snapping them on my wrists as hard as i can until i get welts |
I have those problems too but I don't decide on cutting myself or whatever. Its Not good to cut urself You really should start thinking about how others feel about this think about it do you really want ur friends to be upset because ur cutting urself My life is as hard as urs yeah theres a rumor going around in my school, and Noone cares I'm alive, my favorite Cat Panther Died, My parents are telling me that I'm not going to make it in the Army, I had a Teacher who jumped on me for No Reason, my ex been telling junk about me, My own best friend don't even Trust me, I hardly have any friends, and Ride now I have a friend thats threatening to kill herself because of some stupid reasons So I do no what ur going through but Cutting urself is not the right awsner its Wrong! I may have those problems but I cool off easy I don't let get to me and thinking that those people are right or wrong. cause there not the ones running ur life you run ur own life if they like it or not. If you have a problem don't cut or anything that has to do with hurting you because you'll be hurting alot of people who do care about you |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-28 00:36:15 |
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| do you want to know something, right now it sounds like life is really hard for you right now and it's going to get better, since my ideas wont help because your way beyond that, maybe when your not mad or upset you should be out there doing something. Get involved that way you won't think about how your parents might be getting divorced or rumors or all they boyfriend crap. The only way to forget our past is to move on to the future, and live in the present. My aunt says that all the time, it's summer you told me that you've been busy but normally your not, I think that if you find a whole bunch of programs to do like a summer choir, or something fun to do with your friends, which i am not saying you dont you'll get your mind off things you know? also try karate i love it i get my anger out, i have a lot of energy after it, and its really good excersize |
well i think you should do as he says, go on to the future and live in the present, i have only 1 problem myself so i don't know how you feel, or i do a little but i dunno, anyway, the only problem i have is that every time my family is going somewhere we are happy and all that but when we are taking 1 STEP inside our house, it feels so... sadly, disapointed, angry and other bad feelings. It's just like the house is haunted, and the ghosts make you feel worse, and that makes my parents argue(dunno if i spell right), and talks about moving away, i want to move away because this is a booring place but the want to move to another booooring place, and that makes me feel bad when i'm home but not when im at my grandma or grandpa or even vacation. So try to think about nice things, the things u like/love and other good things and don't cut. By the way, I've been together with a cutter and she were talking bout her problem all the time and i helped here as much as i could but even i can get tired of it but i tryed to help... but don't cut, ok?
PS: the cutter i know is 14 years and drinks, smokes and goes on partys, i don't know if she does it to be cool, but then she cuts... she has tryed to make suicide but she were thinking on every good thing she had, and it keept her alive atleast. and i am glad to hear that! sometimes i thinked that if the did make suicide it was my fault... |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-29 19:18:26 |
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well like i said i havent done it in like 4 months...but umm im not with david anymore...i cant stand to see sumone i really care about hurt themselves like he does...with the drugs..and smoking..and the sex.He says hes all depressed now..and he is...cuz he misses me and he loves me...But im with an amazing guy now..he has one problem smoking...but hes quitting...for real hes readin books on quitting and hes chewing gum instead of smoking...ever since we've been dating i havent seen him smoke once...and ive seen him alot...but umm the pic on my signature is of me and him...dont i look happy? |
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| Skrivet den 2006-07-29 19:20:41 |
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well like i said i havent done it in like 4 months...but umm im not with david anymore...i cant stand to see sumone i really care about hurt themselves like he does...with the drugs..and smoking..and the sex.He says hes all depressed now..and he is...cuz he misses me and he loves me...But im with an amazing guy now..he has one problem smoking...but hes quitting...for real hes readin books on quitting and hes chewing gum instead of smoking...ever since we've been dating i havent seen him smoke once...and ive seen him alot...but umm the pic on my signature is of me and him...dont i look happy? |
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| Skrivet den 2006-08-01 00:06:46 |
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i guess cutting is in a way like drugs, and most of the time you do it only because you're so used to it.
also, it really ruins your life, so you have to quit as soon as possible. at first its really hard, for a couple of days you'll get really depressed and sick but after a week or so it'll get better, really.
stopping cutting yourself will strenghen you and with time it'll be easier to overcome your depression.
good luck :) |
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